Belonging to or being part of a local community may look different for different people. Some people may just want to get to know their neighbours while others may be looking for formal recreational activities.

Getting to know your neighbours

Getting to know your neighbours is about making connections. This can take time, so don’t be hard on yourself it you don’t put your hand up immediately to host the annual street party.

A simple way to start getting to know your neighbours is by acknowledging them. By waving or saying ‘hi’ when you see them, you are letting them know you want to engage.

Of course, this means spending some time outside. Get into the habit of having your morning cuppa on the front porch or watering your garden when other people are out and about. A regular walk around the neighbourhood is a great way to start spotting familiar faces, share a smile and engage in small talk. A comment about the weather is always a great icebreaker.

Find things you have in common with your neighbours. If you have a dog, ask about their dog. If you have children, ask about their children. If you enjoy gardening and spot someone working in their yard, ask them about their garden. A quick catch-up can do wonders for your mood.

There are lots of friendly people in every neighbourhood. Look out for those people who make eye contact, smile, wave or a stop for a chat. These are the people with whom you may choose to make deeper connections.

If you are feeling bold, suggest a coffee catch up at the local café or ask a local veggie grower if you can have a look at their tomato plants.

If you don't feel confident approaching a neighbour yourself, consider asking a trusted family member or friend to knock on a neighbour’s door. Most people are understanding and more than willing to keep an eye out for someone who may need a little extra support. You don’t have to live in each other’s pockets, but it’s a good feeling to know there is someone nearby who is aware of you and looking out for you.

Joining a local club or group

If you haven’t been part of a formal club or community organisation for a while, it’s understandable that it might be hard to find or join a group. What if the club isn’t what you expected it to be? How will you manage in an environment full of people you don’t know?

Here are some tips to help make the transition a little easier.

Finding the right club or group:

• Join your local social media group where local groups are often promoted – ask for recommendations.
• Check bulletin boards at local cafes and supermarkets
• Check your local council website, which may have a list of clubs in your area.
• Search online for community groups available in your local area.
• Ask your neighbours and friends about groups they are part of.
• Drop by your local community centre and ask what programs they run.

If you are thinking about joining up, but are not sure:

• ask for a brochure
• attend a come-and-try session
• do a Google search
• check online reviews
• drop by and ask for a tour or information session
• ask to talk to someone who is a member

If you want to come along, but are worried about not knowing anyone or feeling awkward:

• attend with a friend
• bring along something to share - a plate of goodies is always a great way to break the ice.
• ask that someone be your ‘buddy’ for the first few visits
• ask to be introduced to a few members

There are also a range of informal groups you can join, from walking groups to art groups and book clubs:

• Join your local social media group where informal local groups are often promoted – ask for recommendations.
• Start your own group! If you have a particular interest that you would like to enjoy with others, suggest it on social media and see what evolves
• Check local bulletin boards at cafes or supermarkets
• Ask your neighbours if they know of any opportunities